When Bitterness Builds - Encouragement for Today - March 03, 2026

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Laurie DaviesMarch 3, 2026

When Bitterness Builds
LAURIE DAVIES

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“Hannah was praying silently, and though her lips were moving, her voice could not be heard. Eli thought she was drunk …” 1 Samuel 1:13 (CSB) 

Have you ever been misunderstood? I still remember the shock from a false accusation against me years ago. Something I did with good intentions backfired. To make matters worse, the false charge grew into a rumor.

I’d love to say I had a super spiritual response, but my plans to set the record straight grew as long as a CVS receipt. Anger flashed, and indignation formed. I wanted to clear my name. But God wanted to clear my heart. A grudge had lodged there, and without meaning to, I had become an emotional “hoarder.”

As I talked with God about the situation, He showed me the beauty of a life free from offense and bitterness. He led me to the story of Hannah in 1 Samuel.

Hannah longed for a child. Meanwhile, her husband’s other wife (complicated home life, I know) already had children and didn’t miss an opportunity to rub that in Hannah’s face. She “would taunt [Hannah] severely just to provoke her” during — of all times — the family’s annual trip to the temple for worship (1 Samuel 1:6, CSB).

Year after year, Hannah wept while her rival taunted. Her hopes faded.

One year, Hannah begged the Lord for a son and vowed to give him back to the Lord to be trained in ministry. Then wham! A false accusation came. Hannah was praying through her deep anguish and grief, but a priest named Eli accused her of being drunk!

“Hannah was praying silently, and though her lips were moving, her voice could not be heard. Eli thought she was drunk …” (1 Samuel 1:13).

Imagine: Her rival’s taunts fresh in her ears, Hannah couldn’t even pour her heart out to God without the priest jumping to a false conclusion.

But here’s the plot twist. When Hannah’s answered prayer came — a son named Samuel — she made good on her vow to return him to the Lord by placing him into Eli’s care to be trained for ministry.

Would you do this? Would I?

Would I trust my son to the man who maligned me during my most painful season? Or in some corner of my heart, would I hold on to a grudge? Would I become bitter?

I think in those years of waiting, God tenderized Hannah’s heart with dependence and humility, and that’s how she lived free from grudge-holding and scorekeeping. Look at the result:

“Samuel grew. The LORD was with him, and he fulfilled everything Samuel prophesied” (1 Samuel 3:19, CSB).

What amazing story might Jesus write for us if we refuse to let bitterness build up in our lives? What beautiful legacy might He establish if we stop holding on to the things He asks us to lay down? Scripture cements Hannah’s legacy as a praying woman and as the mother of a son who changed the nation of Israel with his wisdom and authority.

What will your legacy be?

Lord, when people falsely accuse me, help me not to keep score or stay bitter on the inside. Instead, help me release my “right” to be offended, trusting You to work everything out. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

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To find freedom from emotions like regret, false guilt, and bitterness, grab a copy of Laurie Davies’ book, Emotional Hoarding: Letting Go of the Stuff that Keeps You Stuck.

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If your heart feels heavy with hard emotions, visit lauriedavies.com for a downloadable resource that will help you clear space and live free.

Enter to WIN your very own copy of Emotional Hoarding by Laurie Davies. To celebrate this book, Laurie’s publisher will give away 5 copies! Enter to win by filling out the form here. {We’ll randomly select 5 winners and notify them via email by Monday, March 9, 2026.}

FOR DEEPER STUDY

2 Corinthians 3:17, “Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom” (CSB).

Philippians 3:13-14, “… Forgetting what is behind and reaching forward to what is ahead, I pursue as my goal the prize promised by God’s heavenly call in Christ Jesus” (CSB).

Are you holding on to or “hoarding” any hard emotions? Picture the freedom you could feel. What could this freedom look like in your life? Imagine, and jot a few thoughts.

What are you willing to lay down today to make room for the good things God wants you to experience? Tell us in the comments!

© 2026 by Laurie Davies. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 31 Ministries
P.O. Box 3189
Matthews, NC 28106
www.Proverbs31.org

 

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Laurie DaviesMarch 3, 2026

When Bitterness Builds
LAURIE DAVIES

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“Hannah was praying silently, and though her lips were moving, her voice could not be heard. Eli thought she was drunk …” 1 Samuel 1:13 (CSB) 

Have you ever been misunderstood? I still remember the shock from a false accusation against me years ago. Something I did with good intentions backfired. To make matters worse, the false charge grew into a rumor.

I’d love to say I had a super spiritual response, but my plans to set the record straight grew as long as a CVS receipt. Anger flashed, and indignation formed. I wanted to clear my name. But God wanted to clear my heart. A grudge had lodged there, and without meaning to, I had become an emotional “hoarder.”

As I talked with God about the situation, He showed me the beauty of a life free from offense and bitterness. He led me to the story of Hannah in 1 Samuel.

Hannah longed for a child. Meanwhile, her husband’s other wife (complicated home life, I know) already had children and didn’t miss an opportunity to rub that in Hannah’s face. She “would taunt [Hannah] severely just to provoke her” during — of all times — the family’s annual trip to the temple for worship (1 Samuel 1:6, CSB).

Year after year, Hannah wept while her rival taunted. Her hopes faded.

One year, Hannah begged the Lord for a son and vowed to give him back to the Lord to be trained in ministry. Then wham! A false accusation came. Hannah was praying through her deep anguish and grief, but a priest named Eli accused her of being drunk!

“Hannah was praying silently, and though her lips were moving, her voice could not be heard. Eli thought she was drunk …” (1 Samuel 1:13).

Imagine: Her rival’s taunts fresh in her ears, Hannah couldn’t even pour her heart out to God without the priest jumping to a false conclusion.

But here’s the plot twist. When Hannah’s answered prayer came — a son named Samuel — she made good on her vow to return him to the Lord by placing him into Eli’s care to be trained for ministry.

Would you do this? Would I?

Would I trust my son to the man who maligned me during my most painful season? Or in some corner of my heart, would I hold on to a grudge? Would I become bitter?

I think in those years of waiting, God tenderized Hannah’s heart with dependence and humility, and that’s how she lived free from grudge-holding and scorekeeping. Look at the result:

“Samuel grew. The LORD was with him, and he fulfilled everything Samuel prophesied” (1 Samuel 3:19, CSB).

What amazing story might Jesus write for us if we refuse to let bitterness build up in our lives? What beautiful legacy might He establish if we stop holding on to the things He asks us to lay down? Scripture cements Hannah’s legacy as a praying woman and as the mother of a son who changed the nation of Israel with his wisdom and authority.

What will your legacy be?

Lord, when people falsely accuse me, help me not to keep score or stay bitter on the inside. Instead, help me release my “right” to be offended, trusting You to work everything out. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

OUR FAVORITE THINGS

To find freedom from emotions like regret, false guilt, and bitterness, grab a copy of Laurie Davies’ book, Emotional Hoarding: Letting Go of the Stuff that Keeps You Stuck.

width

ENGAGE

If your heart feels heavy with hard emotions, visit lauriedavies.com for a downloadable resource that will help you clear space and live free.

Enter to WIN your very own copy of Emotional Hoarding by Laurie Davies. To celebrate this book, Laurie’s publisher will give away 5 copies! Enter to win by filling out the form here. {We’ll randomly select 5 winners and notify them via email by Monday, March 9, 2026.}

FOR DEEPER STUDY

2 Corinthians 3:17, “Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom” (CSB).

Philippians 3:13-14, “… Forgetting what is behind and reaching forward to what is ahead, I pursue as my goal the prize promised by God’s heavenly call in Christ Jesus” (CSB).

Are you holding on to or “hoarding” any hard emotions? Picture the freedom you could feel. What could this freedom look like in your life? Imagine, and jot a few thoughts.

What are you willing to lay down today to make room for the good things God wants you to experience? Tell us in the comments!

© 2026 by Laurie Davies. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 31 Ministries
P.O. Box 3189
Matthews, NC 28106
www.Proverbs31.org

 

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