Don’t Cheat Yourself Out of the Promised Land - iBelieve Truth: A Devotional for Women - January 27, 2025
iBelieve Truth: A Devotional for Women
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By Victoria Riollano, Crosswalk.com
"Search me, God, and know my heart test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me and lead me in the way everlasting." Psalm 139:23-24
You missed the exit.
These words are often said in my vehicle. My husband, admittedly so, has a horrible pattern of missing exits. A few years ago, on the way to a concert in DC, this habit would cost us much time. Even with the GPS fully loaded with precise directions, he missed several exits. With each exit, we would be forced to turn around, go back to an earlier position, or completely redirect. Being in DC traffic, full of one-way streets, meant that our one-hour trip quickly turned into a two-hour trip.
We were simply wandering in cycles, around and around with no clear direction.
As I began to look back on this day, I reflected on how life is often similar to this trip. Although we made it to our destination, we arrived frustrated and not in the timing that was originally planned. There have been many instances in my own life where I feel like simple mistakes were putting me in a never-ending cycle of “being stuck.” Whether my own choices or someone else’s, there was a frustration of never quite getting ahead. Perhaps you can relate to the times when you thought you would be getting a raise, only to find out someone else got the promotion for which you had been praying. Have you had times when you were prepping to buy a home, trying to get out of debt, or considering launching a new business, only to have an unexpected situation completely change the plan?
We aren’t the first or last to experience setbacks or a change of plans.
I am reminded of the children of Israel. From Exodus 3-15, we can recount their story of being rescued from slavery so they could walk into their promised land. The issue, however, is the 11-day journey turns into a 40-year wilderness experience. In fact, many of those who left Israel never saw or entered the promised land. Instead, they wandered the wilderness in a constant cycle of complaining, watching God respond, and worshipping idols. They never quite learned to trust God that He could deliver them to their promised land. What I found interesting was the following verse…
When Pharaoh finally let the people go, God did not lead them along the main road that ran through Philistine territory, even though that was the shortest route to the Promised Land. God said, "If the people are faced with a battle, they might change their minds and return to Egypt." Exodus 13:17
In other words, this detour through the wilderness wasn’t due to a “missed exit” through the desert. Instead, the Lord made a choice to delay their promised land arrival. The Israelites were simply not ready to walk into what God has said belonged to them. God knew that if they faced any form of opposition, they would want to run back to the past. Rather than allowing this to happen, God positioned them in an area where they would have to depend solely on Him for nourishment, strength, and encouragement. Their wilderness situation was ordained to get them ready for the promise. Unfortunately, their patterns of behavior kept them stuck for far longer than God intended.
Is it possible we are cheating ourselves out of our promised land?
In other words, could it be that God wants to advance us, but our attitudes, thought patterns, or actions are standing in the way? Though we all hate to admit it, we are at times our worst enemy. God, in His goodness, decides to withhold from us what we are not quite ready for. Though it may be frustrating at the moment, it really is for our own good while He deals with the matters of our hearts.
Search me, God, and know my heart test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me and lead me in the way everlasting. Psalm 139:23-24
When was the last time we prayed a prayer like this amid our frustration of waiting? During times when it feels like we are in a constant cycle of defeat, do we pray for the Lord to show us our hearts and reveal any ways that are offensive? These hard, yet powerful prayers, followed by intentional change, can be what takes us out of the wandering and into our promise.
Today, if you feel like the passenger on a journey that will never end, ask the Lord for insight. You were never meant to wander indefinitely. Instead, the Lord wants you to walk into what you were created for. When we pray honest prayers and seek the Lord for direction, He will lead us to where He has called us and the timing will be just right.
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Victoria Riollano is a mother of eight, veteran spouse, Psychology professor, and doctoral student, Victoria has learned the art of balancing family and accomplishing God’s ultimate purpose for her life. Victoria holds an MA in Child Psychology and is the author of two books- The Victory Walk: A 21-Day Devotional on Living a Victorious Life and Warrior Mother: Equipping Your Heart to Fight for Your Family’s Faith. When she is not writing, you can find her serving in her local church as the pastor’s wife, worship leader, and youth pastor. Ultimately, she desires to empower women to live a life of victory, hope, and love. You can connect with Victoria at www.victoryspeaks.org and on social media at Victory Speaks by Victoria Riollano on Facebook and @myvictoryspeaks on Instagram.
Related Resource: I Am the Way, the Truth, and the Life | Midweek Prayer (John 14:1–6)
When our hearts feel troubled, Jesus invites us to trust Him again.
This short midweek prayer creates space to pause, breathe deeply, and return to Jesus’s words in John 14:1–6, where He says, “I am the way, the truth, and the life.” In this guided prayer, we acknowledge the places where worry, uncertainty, or longing have unsettled our hearts and bring them honestly before God.
Jesus reminds us that we are not alone—that He is with us, that He is preparing a place for us, and that He will return for us. As we pray, we ask for help to trust Him more deeply and to follow Him in the way He has already made clear: to love God fully and to love our neighbors as ourselves.
Take a few quiet minutes to slow down, listen for God’s invitation, and rest in the presence of the One who leads us in truth and life. If you like what you hear, follow So Much More on Apple or Spotify so you never miss an episode!
