How to get ready for a first date
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2:30 PM on Wednesday, February 11
By Sarah Armstrong for AXE, Stacker
How to get ready for a first date
First dates can be exciting, nerve-wracking, and straight-up confusing. You’re meeting someone new, maybe even that person you’ve been vibing with online, and you want to make the kind of impression that sticks. The secret? It’s not about overthinking every little detail. It’s about looking fresh, feeling confident, and yes, smelling amazing. This guide from AXE will walk you through exactly how to get ready for a first date so you can step out knowing you’ve got it covered.
1. The Night Before
Before we even get to the day of the date, let’s talk prep. The night before, make sure you’re well-rested. No one wants to be yawning over dinner. Plus, a good night’s sleep does wonders for your skin. Speaking of skin, consider a quick skincare routine. A gentle cleanser and a bit of moisturizer can make a world of difference. And remember, hydration is key, so get on that H2O.
2. Start with a Shower
Nothing sets the tone better than a good shower. Use a body wash that not only cleans but leaves you smelling incredible. Think of it as the base layer of your date prep. It smells great, keeps skin soft, and lets you step out feeling fresh.
3. Grooming
A first date is the perfect time to show you’ve put in some effort. That doesn’t mean a full makeover, but a quick grooming check goes a long way.
- Face: Wash your face with a gentle cleanser to remove excess oil and dirt. Fresh skin instantly makes you look more awake.
- Hair: Decide if you’re going sleek, messy, or somewhere in between. Add product sparingly so your style looks intentional, not crunchy.
- Extras: Trim nails, moisturize your skin, and don’t forget a little lip balm.
4. What to Wear on a First Date
Now, onto the outfit. The golden rule? Comfort meets style. You want to look like you put in effort, but not like you’re trying too hard. Think a nice pair of jeans or chinos paired with a clean, well-fitted shirt. Layering is your friend, so consider a casual jacket or a cool hoodie if the weather allows. Footwear? Keep it clean and simple. Sneakers or boots are usually a safe bet.
The key is to wear clothes that fit well and match your vibe. When guys wonder how to dress up for a first date, it’s less about overdressing and more about being put-together and authentic.
5. Fragrance
You’ve showered, but now it’s time to lock in that freshness. Deodorant is nonnegotiable. Apply it right after your shower to keep odor in check. Choose a scent that complements your natural vibe. Remember, less is more. You want them to notice, not be overwhelmed. Apply it to pulse points like your wrists and neck for a subtle, lasting effect.
6. Final Mirror Check
Before you head out, do one last scan. Straighten your collar, fix any flyaway hairs, and make sure your shoes are clean. These little details show that you care, and that effort translates into confidence.
Pro tip: Pocket breath mints or gum. Fresh breath is just as important as fresh clothes.
7. Mindset Matters
Okay, so you’ve nailed the routine. Next up: What to do on your first date to set the tone just right. Let’s talk confidence. No matter what outfit you wear or what fragrance you spray, confidence is what really sets the vibe.
Here are five quick reminders.
Be punctual: Being on time shows respect and sets a positive tone for the date.
Be yourself: Don’t overthink how to act. Authenticity is way more attractive than playing a role.
Focus on fun: First dates are about connection, not perfection.
Stay present: Put your phone away and engage. Listening is underrated and always appreciated.
Compliments are key: A genuine compliment can break the ice and make your date feel special.
Yes, first dates can be stressful, but remember, the other person’s just as curious about you as you are about them. Keep the conversation light and fun. Ask questions, share stories, and don’t be afraid to show a bit of your quirky side. Authenticity is attractive.
8. Post-Date: Reflect and Relax
After the date, take a moment to reflect. How did it go? What did you enjoy? It’s all part of the learning experience. Whether it leads to a second date or not, you’ve taken a step out of your comfort zone, and that’s something to be proud of.
In the end, getting ready for a first date is all about preparation and confidence. Smell good, look good, and most importantly, feel good. With these tips in your back pocket, you’re all set to make a memorable impression.
This story was produced by AXE and reviewed and distributed by Stacker.
